i can spin my gearstik in circles.....looks like its in neutral wen its in gear
took the stick out changed the bush but not much different.any suggestions?....

Can spin it in circles? The stick comes back towards the driver, so does it rotate like the knob is loose, or like it's not in? If it's that bad i dunno WTF happened as it's metal pins that go into slots in the shifter. More than likely you're talking about it being loose and wobbly, get a new shifter seat and cup. Both need to be replaced to get it firmer.

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