What fluid did you have in it and what did you put in now? You need a 75W90 for the manual... or MT90 if you're using Redline.
The type of fluid and viscosity have absolutely no bearing on whether the transmission will shift when the vehicle is stopped; The shifter wasn't mated with the extension properly, that's all.
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